You need to see it as a job. At work you have to be serious and professional. Outside work you can have fun and do other things you wouldn't do while at work.
It's like asking me to help on the Support when I'm creating a new skin. It's impossible to do them both at the same time.
Well, there are many supp forums. Yours, official supp forum, mihai is opening his. PLenty of them. How can one compete in that area? What is the goal and use of it? What can one offer more than the other?
Well, it all depends on the staff there. And of course how many people request things, how fast your response is answered etc. So my goal of having one on my forum is to help easy coding issues. Not big ones as I don't really have that time to do it.
No. Wounds never heal. You need to figure a way to keep your mind off everything that hurts.
In my life, when I had something that have hurten me before, and couldn't cope with it alone, over time it just vanished and I it is amazing for me how simple it is. But, experiences differ.